This is a guide to show you how to be more intimate with your special
someone and NOT have sex! And some on a good relationship.
Steps
- One of many things you can do to be more intimate is to play games with each other that you and just a friend would never play. For example, you want to make a kiss more interesting.
- For girls: steal his wallet while you two are kissing. (This is recommended only if you two have been together for a while.) This will usually cause him to kiss you again so you are more caught up in the kiss while he is busy stealing his wallet back.
- For guys: girls don't need a wallet to steal. They have back pockets. If they stole your wallet that opens up the option for you to "explore" their back pocket(s). But if they are not ready for or you are not ready for "pocket action", say so!
- When making out, if you have made out before, make the make-out session more interesting by swirling your tongue around on the tip of their tongue before pulling away from the kiss. Make sure to be slow in doing this. This is sure to send shivers down their spine, and make them want more. (Beware: making them wild with your kisses could lead to more, and if that's not what you want, make sure to lay it out and say no!)
- Another fun "game" to play when making out is to steal each other’s gum, tic tacks, or whatever you may have. Just make sure, when you are trading off, not to trade a bunch of spit too unless they like that.
- Teasing the other person with your kisses can be fun. But for some it makes them frustrated and angry. Make sure you know how they react to things before you try playing "hard to get." Some things to do to tease with a kiss are to: go in for a kiss then stop as your lips brush, and then pull back and smile. This will cause them most of the time, to come in more aggressively for a kiss (but not too aggressively).
- Also, go in for a kiss and kiss your partner gently on the lips, then to the jawline and kiss along there, linger just for a few seconds around their ear, this allows your partner to hear your breathing and often gives the person 'tingles' or 'goosebumps', and in general is rather nice for them. then from the ear move down onto the neck and kiss them therefor a short while, then eventually, return to the lips and find out just how much they enjoyed this little detour by seeing how desperate they are to kiss you.
- Another teasing kiss to try would be you go in for a kiss and kiss them, but before you pull away to touch their bottom lip with your tongue as if you were going in to make out, you pull away. This will also make them pull you back most of the time, for another kiss, this kind of kiss does usually lead to making out.
- Try other new things and see what drives your partner wild! But remember if you or your partner is not ready for something; know it is ok to say no!
- Another fun thing to try is wrestling. Not necessarily on the floor or on a bed (this could lead to other things) but if you guys are "pretend fighting" over things like tickling each other. If the guy is trying to stop you girls from tickling his sides, he will most likely pin you in his arms while he tries to get back at you. This is fun and it helps with bonding.
- Overall, remember to have fun with each other. Being
in a relationship means more than just the physical aspect of it. It
means you really want to know the person and be with them because the
way they are! Remember to accept flaws. We're all human. Love them for
them, and have fun with each other. Remember to talk, and get to know
them. Don't be in a relationship just to "get some action." But to know
and love the person you're with for who they are.
Tips
- Before making out or playing any of the games that go along with making out, make sure to brush your teeth! No one likes bad breath!
- Respect each other's boundaries.
- If you are not comfortable with something, say so! If you're with the right person. they will respect you.
- Make sure not only to rely on the physical aspect of your relationship but also to connect and talk with the person you're with. This makes a relationship a great and rewarding one.
- Accept each other's flaws.
- Compliment each other. especially when it comes to kissing. Tell them how good a kisser they are, and if they're not, tell them you'll have to practice, because as you know practice makes perfect.
- It’s fun to have top secret code names for each other (if that's what you want to call it).
- Tell your partner what you like, and what you don't prefer.
- Listen to each other
- All in all love each other!
Warnings
- Some of tips could lead to more. If that's not what you want, say so! Don't be afraid to speak up! If you're with the right person, they will respect you, and if they leave you for saying no, you’re not with the right person.
Things You'll Need
- A special someone that you really and truly care about.
- The right atmosphere to make sure the person you are with can truly get into the mood of things.
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