So, you've been through a bad break-up, huh? Well, consider yourself one
of many. And now, you want to get back into the dating game without all
of the post break-up drama? Well, sit back, read this article, and take
comfort in knowing that you are not alone.
1. Go into this new relationship cautiously and smartly.
Take things very slowly, and don't let this new guy toy with you. Learn
about all of guys' tricks. Don't be so gullible and believe him if he
tells you he loves you- especially if it's very soon in the relationship
that he tells you that he does. Do not, not, NOT let him take advantage
of you. You're smarter than that, girl, and you know what signs to look
for when it comes to being used and taken advantage of. Protect
yourself, and don't be too trusting.
2. Don't go too fast. This is pretty much like number
one. Don't make out with this boy the first time you guys hang out with
each other. Wait until the time feels right; you will know. What's the
fun of a relationship if you do everything right away? Then, there's
nothing left to look forward too and get butterflies over, you know?
Don't rush into things, and wait a while before sucking face-even if it
kills you.
3. Do not believe the "I love you". That is the biggest
tactic a boy uses on us girls that makes us feel weak in the knees and
vulnerable. In some cases, that isn't true. Sometimes, you will actually
find a good guy out there, who really means it when he says he loves
you. But on most accounts, it's all part of the boys game. You can ask
around if you don't believe me. And whatever happens, don't tell him you
love him back UNLESS YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY CERTAIN THAT YOU DO! You've
probably been there and done that before with the ex, remember? We don't
want to have to go through that again.
4. Don't fall to hard again. Don't let this guy make you
fall for him like you did for your ex-boyfriend. Know better and have
some strength and self respect. Learn from the past. You can always take
some good out of the bad.
5. Don't take compliments too personally. Boys love to
offer girls compliments. It automatically gives them a one-way ticket to
her heart. Girls love compliments, and they aren't a bad thing, but
they can be annoying and they can be bad if they are over-used. Don't
take them all to heart.
6. Don't let nerves take over you. Don't let this boy
make you nervous! But if he does, try not to let it show that he makes
you weak in the knees. I know that boys do that to us because we're only
human, but they don't need to have the satisfaction of knowing that. If
you can, try to make HIM sweat. Make that boy whipped. Whip him like
Whipped Cream!
Tips
- Stay strong and stay true to yourself at all times.
- Don't let yourself get taken advantage of.
- Try not to turn all mushy and soft if you can help it, unless that's really what you want.
- Don't let your new relationship turn into a text message or an online relationship. Make sure this boy calls you and that you guys hang out! You deserve at least that much.
Warnings
- Don't be to dominant and push him away. That could end up in bad results, especially if you really like this boy.
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