HOW TO APPROACH A LADY AND BECOME IRRESISTABLE TO THEM.

 

 Instead of trying to be the pickup artist, turn out to be more social and friendly person. So, on the art of being the natural it's your invisible weapon, but along the process you’ll have to learn to be attractive to women.

The key for success with women is to keep persisting on improving your social skills and making yourself attractive person.

  

                                Dating Women And Attraction Insights

1. Adopting the behavior that make you attractive to women is an ongoing process. I can not emphasize enough how important it is to make easy steps and keep going UNTIL you reach your ULIMATE GOAL, become attractive to women…

 Your Path To Overcome Fear Of Women

  2. Girls like cocky and outgoing men. If you can make them laugh that would be your first advantage over most of the competition. If she chooses you then it would have been a culmination of things that she will have found attractive about you.

The key to being successful with women is to be confident and to have good interpersonal skills. In order for you to develop speaking confidently to girls you will need to practice.

To this extent speak to as many girls or women that you can. The more you are exposed to talking to different women of all age groups the better you will become at it. I know that it will be difficult since you are shy but you have to push that barrier.

Also remember that to give is better than to receive.  Learn to give your time, attention, love etc without expecting anything in return and you should notice a significant difference with the way that people especially girls will see you.

The things that you can do for yourself is to continue gain self respect and make your character strong. In regards to your mental well being you will need to train your brain to shut out negative thoughts and emotions.  The best way to do that is to fill it up with positive thoughts and emotions. A great way to do that is to learn and experience new things.

Technique 1. Women Like Self-confident Men - Make it Your Habit There is a common denominator when men have to decide how to start relationship with woman, after the initial friend phase. Usually one would say: "I have been great mates with a girl for over a year and we decided to start dating. But it's just like we're still just mates with the "physical intimacy" aspect. So ho do you start relationship with girl after being friends for a time? When you go out you should hold yourself up with confidence and dignity. You have the right to be anywhere that any other person is so never feel like that you don't belong. You should not be too preoccupied with what other people think of you. You have to stop thinking negatively and start thinking positively about yourself. I don't have to tell you that doing so, you are your worst enemy. I know that it sounds corny but you have to learn to love yourself.

Once you do this then it will be easier for you to love others and for them to love you. Women love confident guys. These types of men are those that are confident on the inside, happy within themselves. They radiate with joy and assertiveness, they got their life together and are assertive, fun, positive men.

Being friends with a girl can be one of the toughest situations that you can find yourself in, particularly when you spend a lot of time together and you build a really close relationship. 

If you haven't got a lot of experience in the dating game and if you're not sure whether a girl likes you, the key is this - ASSUME she likes you and act accordingly.  

Technique 2. Learn To Interact With Women In A Relaxed Way? . Don't over-analyze what to say when you pass her by, just say 'hey, how's it going' but make sure you are in an upbeat fun sort of mood, and you will convey your positive energy to her. Girls are generally attracted to fun, confident, positive, upbeat people. You, need to understand some basic principles of male - female attraction. The "nice guy" is the shy, unconfident, approval seeking, sexually inhibited man who women only ever like as a friend and NEVER a lover. Take steps to make romance alive. -  Make her feel DESIRED, wanted! -  Tell her how sexy she looks. -  She wants to feel the thrill, excitement and passion of a   new relationship. -  She will measure how much passion you have for her and are able to bring out of her. -  If you don't measure up then the likely chance that she seeks another man is quite likely. Can you remember the excitement of that first date? How you thought about the person almost every day afterwards? Try to give it your best shot. I think depending on how much effort you are willing to put into this will determine how much of a future you both have together.

Low Self-Esteem Stops You From Approaching Girls Typical shy guy would say: "There are lots of girls that I do know and see every-so-often. But I procrastinate to ask them out because I really don't know them that well. And the opportunity for approaching and having a chat with them would rarely ever present itself. The nicest girls who I'd like to go out with are in relationship or simply not interested." First, I think that you should not be hard to yourself. Happiness will surely shine in your life u need to be a bit patient it may that you have not up to now got the correct one but she will surely come. Don't be so disappointed. You probably already have an outgoing personality, so that is not the problem. Your self-esteem might be the problem. First, work on what makes you unhappy. Even as you do this, you can widen your social circle by simply meeting more friends. If you are easy to get along with and have no problem talking to girls, are polite and funny, you should be able to at least start meeting new people, which leads to dating. Remember that if you are interested in someone, it doesn't have to start with something as heavy as a date. Start by simply getting to know the person first, to determine if you like her enough to ask for a date.

The next step you need to learn is UNDERSTANDING THE WAY FEMALE ATTRACTION WORKS.

If you DON’T TAKE ACTION UPON WHAT YOU’VE ABOUT TO LEARN no dating knowledge will help by itself!
YES, I’m going to make some encouragement remarks along the road so you won’t be on you own.

Technique 3: Take the Funny Guy Approach And Play It Casual

Have you already tried to approach woman and initiate conversation with her, but she acts shy and disinterested?

If you want to make initial contact with women, your best move is to be sociable and talkative with as many of them as you can. It will depend on how confident you are as a person, but if you can talk to everyone, then you will be seen as a guy of value and it won't be surprising if a girl likes you.

Also, when being talkative and sociable, remember to display a sense of fun, lightheartedness and humor about yourself. Women will then want to be around you and you will give off a positive vibe. Avoid being really quiet and complaining all the time like many people do. I mean, do you honestly like being round someone who is negative?

How To Arrange Your First Meeting With A Woman?

Next big issue when approaching women is how can you let her know your feelings?

It all really depends on your personality type on whether you want to go for the direct approach or indirect. It doesn't really matter what method you adopt as long as you go ahead with your plans and hopefully get the girl in the end.

A good way to invite a woman is to start with some help of your friends, maybe a party at your place or some restaurant and you can pop the invitation into her mailbox and /or get someone else to organize it? It doesn't have to be everyone.

Another option would be to get a female friend to bump into her, perhaps walking in front of her house, and say "hey didn't you used to work at < your workplace >? 

You should have designated person can even go to her workplace whilst you are away during the week and try to get her contact details/give her yours?
I'm sure that you can come up with many ideas to meet a woman. 

 

Figuring a way to meet her or bump into her is to let her know that you exist, and are interested and for you to find a way to become part of her life if possible. It's what makes a smart or proactive approach.

Smart because it is basically taking control of your emotions and doing something about them instead of just feeling sorry for oneself and never going for what you want.  A proactive approach gets your mind thinking positively instead of negatively.

Technique 4: Asking A Woman For Friendship From a Man's Perspective

Don't be Mr. Shy - a woman will never know you like her and nothing will happen. Some other guy will walk in and do what you wanted to all along. The reason most relationships fail is because they don't know how to speak the other persons love language so, after that obsessive in love feeling is gone what is there.

How to know if you have a connection with a woman?

In order to see whether you have a connection with her or not you should (if you can) plan for more meetings with her face to face. The more frequent you see her, more of a bond and connection you will form. If you can make her laugh that would be even better. In summary there isn't necessarily anything particular that you can say or do that will sweep her off her feet.

If she chooses you then it would have been a culmination of things that she will have found attractive about you. All you can really do is be yourself and try to put your best foot forward. Show her how much you like her by being attentive to her needs. I do not mean doing things for her continuously but also give her emotional support etc.

Listen carefully to what she is saying because more often or not valuable clues can be found on how to woo/impress her. Women like guys with passion and a plan.

One of the biggest challenges is getting to notice the signals from the opposite sex. If I lined up the men and the women, and told them to signal attraction, very few would notice the signals! If you have something that you are particularly passionate about or like tell her.

Otherwise just relax and enjoy her company.

Approaching  Women By Inviting Her To A Coffee Break

Girls are very hard to read no matter how skillful in dating you are! Figuring out whether women like you can be difficult no matter what the situation.

Coffee break offer is a perfect alternative to lunch, since you may not know so soon if she is interested. You could just say "hey, I'm going on a cappuccino break...have you had a break yet?"

That way, it is not a "date" since it is not lunch and cappuccino is only a dollar or two. If she says no to a "break", then you pretty much have your answer as to what she might say to a "date".

If she says no, then of course don't ask for a date.

It's not the end of the world if she says no. Instead, continue to be polite, but do move on to someone else who returns your feelings of interest.

On the more casual side if you do want to invite her to lunch, make sure that you do it in a manner which makes her the primary objective and not as a secondary casual tag along. Make her aware that you want to have lunch with her because you like her as a person and want to get to know her better.

Technique 5: Signs That A Woman Has A Crush On You

So called nice guys consider themselves polite and easy to get along with, yet they hardly ever attract women. So you figure that it's about time to get a girlfriend. But you might come to conclusion that you are shy and your self-esteem is probably a bit lower than normal.

SO what's your best path to attract and date a woman you've spotted?

My first advice to men with lack of dating experience is: Go and find someone, even if it's not perfect. When it comes to woman, try to be a bit more practical and calculating. Save your true passion for later, because most women don't know what true passion is.

Girls are very hard to read! Figuring out whether women like you can be difficult even for the experienced men.

 Finding girls is one of the most difficult things in man's life. But at the same time can be one of the easiest. What I mean is usually when I was concentrating on meeting women, or trying to meet girls or find a date, it has never been easy, and usually never worked out well.

But every time, which is most often, I have sat back and just had a good time doing whatever else I was doing and was myself, is when it happened.

If you are expecting someone perfect to come along and make your life exponentially better, its probably not going to happen. Girls are just like every other group of people on the face of the planet in the sense that they have flaws too.

How To Get Date In A Laid-Back Way?

Share something about yourself and perhaps ask her the odd personal question here and there if you can mange it.

For instance what she did on the weekend? Show some general interests in her as a person.

If she responds to those "personal" questions then it's good for you, you might even find out if she has a boyfriend or not. If she does not answer them then it's probably a good indicator that she is not interested.

Technique 6: What Questions To Ask A Girl To Get A Conversation Going?

You might also want to try to firstly ask woman casually whether guys ask her out a lot and how she handles it. Then when you are about to exit, leave her a letter along with a tip saying something along the lines of:

Dear
I understand that you get propositioned a lot from guys and because this happens I just want to pledge to you that I will never ask you out no matter how much I think that you are a wonderful, sincere, kind and beautiful.
I will never ever tell you how much that I like you and that I wish that you would go out with me because I know that it would be wrong and that I do not want to be thrown in with the other guys that have asked you out previously.
Yours sincerely

 Introducing yourself…

There is no way for a woman not to misinterpret a request for a date, no matter how sincere it is. Unless you know how deep her feeling were from the onset, you might like to play it by ear.

Then you could try to approach her but still take things slowly.

Depending on how much you know her what she likes and dislikes you could try to send her a gift or something later on or just go up and talk to her.

Technique 7: Create Connection With a Woman

Listen carefully to what girl is saying because more often or not valuable clues can be found on how to impress her. Women like guys with passion and a plan. If you have something that you are particularly passionate about or like tell her. Otherwise just relax and enjoy her company.

Be yourself and try to put your best foot forward. Show her how much you like her by being attentive to her interests.  The more time that you spend with a woman, the more closer a bond that you will form.

This will only be possible if you do this on a one on one basis.

Then when you do get an opportunity make the most of it and show her a good time.

Dealing With Rejection From Women

When a woman says you "Let Just Be Friends" she is actually saying "You don't turn me on and will NEVER have sex with me" in a nice way. Rejection is an odd thing.  It's good because it means you're actually doing something in the right direction instead of feeling powerless and hopeless.

But it may cause you several undesirable feelings ranging from a slight embarrassment to a crushed self-esteem. The only way to get over those feelings is to experience it over and over again.

Another thing was being shy about your looks. That's something you could change.  Perhaps you could try working out, dieting, changing eating habits, but not with the intention of getting girls.

If you were to do that, I would hope you do it to help your own self esteem, and make you feel better about yourself. There is almost nothing women love more than a man with confidence, goals, and dreams.

If you set a goal and attain it not only will you impress women more often, but you might even amaze yourself, and raise that self esteem - confidence level! Do it only for yourself. You would rather be happy with yourself and alone than unhappy with who you are.

And you are likely to get stuck in an awkward silence. THERE IS A DEFINITIVE CURE FOR THIS MENTAL BLOCK.

Technique 8: What Are Shy Men Options To Approaching Women?

Quite frankly, rejection never got easier to absorb. If anything, for the most part, what ever self esteem I had worked hard to build up, was chipped away by all the rejections.

The best thing for shy guys here to do is to try and establish a good deal amount of friendships with as many people as possible, of both sexes, and try to network your way into a relationship.

Ask them to set you up with single girls you know, attend parties, etc. Just approaching random women is not a good idea for most people here.

Expect to get rejected by at least 3 women before getting the first positive results. Most of them will also accept a drink or coffee date with you but end up in a friend zone.