WHAT ARE YOUR GOALS SET FOR YOUR RELATIONSHIP THESE NEW YEAR?

Every New Year, we have

resolutions (both new and old

ones we could not stick to the

year before)- a bunch of goals

we wish to accomplish so we

can better ourselves and our

lives. We want to lose weight and

shape up, quit smoking, create

more open windows for

ourselves career wise, make new

friends and so on. We set New

Year goals for everything else,

why not our relationship? Your

relationship is such a big part of

your life and has a lot of

influence on you and your

partner, so it is important that

you set goals to make

improvements and positive

changes so that both you and

your partner cannot continue to

get the best and most out of it.

Even what you feel may be the

best relationship can use some

work, because we all know-

there is always room for

improvement. Besides, no

relationship can stay passionate

and healthy without real work.

Here are some Relationship

Resolutions for 2011 that you

and your partner can work on

accomplishing, to result in an

even more loving and healthy

relationship:

Talk more. This is not about the

daily routine chit chat that you

and your partner do either. All

relationships eventually end up

following some kind of routine

and with our busy lives; we often

forget the importance of keeping

things alive and fresh by talking

about different things other than

our usual daily happenings. Make

an effort (and of course the time)

to talk to each other about other

things- the things you used to

talk about when you first met

and were very excited about

getting to know each other.

Share your dreams, fantasies and

goals, as well as your opinion

about topics or events that are

taking place in the world. Get

conversations and debates

started (in a friendly manner), to

spice things up and add some

new excitement into your

relationship. Not only will you

break your routine and add

excitement, but you will also

learn more about each other,

which is always a plus and

need. ....